How To Avoid Them5 First Date Mistakes Men Make That End In Heartbreak

Let's face it­­you never get a second chance to
make a first impression!

That's why, if you want to take things further with
a woman, you need to show her your best on the very
first date. And in actual fact, there are 5 things
that men consistently do on first dates that
totally destroy their chances of seeing the woman
again, and the worst part is they think they're
doing it right!

Avoid the following 5 mistakes to increase your
chances of success on your first date:


MISTAKE #1 -- BUYING GIFTS

Bringing chocolate or flowers on a first date isn't
the best idea - especially if you've just met the
woman! She's there to get to know YOU. Women are
always asking themselves "what does THAT mean?" And
in this case it's, "He bought me flowers because he
likes me, but he doesn't even know anything about
me yet! A little suspicious.


MISTAKE #2 -- BEING MR. SERIOUS

When in the presence of a potential date, men often
become boring, instead of keeping up the friendly
vibe they have with their friends. They won’t make
jokes or laugh with the woman, they won’t play
around like they do with their friends and they
generally take things a little too seriously. Why
do men change their behavior around women, often
without even realizing they’re doing it? Because
they fear losing their only chance with the girl of
their dreams, they try and play the safe side,
which results in a “Mr. Serious.”


MISTAKE #3 -- CONDUCTING AN INTERVIEW

When men become "Mr. Serious" they often fall into
"job interview conversation mode." Make sure you
reserve questions like, "So where do you work?" or
"How many brothers and sisters do you have?" for
the future, after you've already had a lot of fun
and made the sparks fly. Instead, talk about your
hobbies, interesting stories and fun stuff. Avoid
anything too deep for a long period of time. On a
first date, it can make things a little depressing.
Talk like you've known each other for years (as if
you don’t need to do the awkward 20-questions
quiz.) Of course you can ask basic questions, but
never make it the main focus of your date. Focus on
fun.


MISTAKE #4 -- BEING TOO NEEDY & DIRECT

Without realizing it, many guys turn their dates
off by trying a little too hard. For example: Men
will lean into a woman’s personal space, and ask,
"so do you like me?" or constantly change his
opinion to seek her approval and make her like him.
Big mistake. Ironically, it's leaning back, staying
cool and calm, being a little cheeky, interesting,
mysterious and comfortable with yourself that
actually gets a woman's attention and keeps her
interested.


MISTAKE #5 -- GOING TO BORING PLACES

If your date finds the night boring, you're
finished. When it comes to having fun on first
dates, nothing is more important than what you do.
And while dinners and movies are nice, it's really
hard to leave a great impression in these settings.
Why? Because they set a very "proper tone" that's
hard to turn into fun and playful. And unless
you're a super funny, intelligent and interesting
guy, dinner and movie dates just aren't the best
place to take your date. Instead, go to fun places
like mini-golf parks, carnivals, parks, or even
better, come up with your own unique and fun ideas.

So in essence, while there are many factors to
having a successful date, a great date idea really
helps you do many of them naturally! Remember,
where you take a woman on a first date can be the
difference between a great night and a dating
disaster! Choose wisely!


About the author:

Oprah Expert Michael Webb is the author of 300
Creative Dates, a book jam-packed with unique ways
to help leave a great first impression without
breaking the bank!

Avoid This Mistakes
Written By Michael Webb

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Tip #1 – Resist blaming your ex boyfriend.

Resist wanting to blame, argue or make your ex boyfriend jealous in the hope that he will magically come back just so you would STOP annoying him. See how illogical this is? You can’t attract love while throwing out negative energy. Even if you’re upset with him right now, you must remain calm and act as mature as possible.

Tip #2 – Don’t just shower him with love to get him back.

By throwing too much attention his way, this will usually not do any good because he knows you only want him back. Doing this to over-compensate what you failed to do before is not only a little late, it might even push him further away. If you want him back, you need to know why he left in the first place.

Tip #3 – Desperation kills attraction.

Feeling desperate means acting desperate. The best way to handle this is to resist talk to your ex for now. If you find yourself constantly calling him, txt messaging or begging and pleading for him to take you back, all these are signs of desperation. He has the upperhand for now but if you show him that you’re still in control, your strength during this time will be very attractive for him.

Tip #4 – Don’t stalk or bug his friends and family.

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Tip #5 – Analysis what went wrong in the relationship.

The fastest and best way to get your ex boyfriend back comes from taking a look at yourself. Sometimes we choose not to see something because that thing causes pain to us. But how you feel about yourself usually reflects back into the relationship you have. Take a look at what you were doing or not doing to cause the relationship to crumble.

Tip #6 – Bring back the best qualities about you.

Remember why your boyfriend fell in love with you in the first place? If you can’t answer this, you’ll need to do a bit of soul searching. You won’t be able to attract anyone if you don’t know what it is about you that attracted him in the first place.

Tip #7 – Jot down in a notepad all the pros and cons of your relationship.

No matter what you may think, your relationship did end for a reason. Now you must find out if its even a good idea to get back together with your ex boyfriend. The best way to do this is to write everything down in a pros and cons list, so you can see everything at once.

Tip #8 – Understand this won’t be forever.

Your break up pain will be hard to get for now but understand this won’t be forever. Time heals all wounds and its best you have this mindset to begin with to speed up your recovery. People do reunite all the time and there’s no reason why you can’t get your ex boyfriend back in the future.

Tip #9 – Don’t put your life on hold for him.

If you want to get over the break up quickly, you’ll not only have a better chance to get your ex boyfriend back, but you’ll be able to get on with your life faster also. The best thing to do is to focus on other areas of your life. Dive into work, delve into your hobbies, go out more with your friends. In essence, just get on with your life. Even if you don’t feel like it.

Tip #10 – Do some improving.

Improving yourself will not only increase your self-esteem and confidence it will make you happier in the long run.

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